Change your lifestyle // The Power of Habit

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It’s a bold statement to say that a book has changed your life. Instead, I’ll say that this book has been one of the many influences that has created a shift in my mindset.

I read several self-help books as a teenager, but found most of them repetitive and full of cliches. Instead of learning new skills, I felt more like I had paid for a book of common sense. Common sense that I already had.

The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg

I read this book during summer this year. It’s a little different from the other books I’ve read, it focuses on habits – why we do what we do and how to change.

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The book starts with the story of Lisa Allen, a 34 year old women who’s husband had just left her for another woman. She was overweight, drinking, smoking and in debt. She then transformed her life, she quit smoking, became a marathon runner, bought her own house, started a masters degree and remarried. All this because she changed one keystone habit – smoking.

The book goes through the ways in which habits are formed, how to form new habits.

My favourite lesson from the book, is keystone habits. The idea behind this, is that by creating one new habit, other things fall into place. The result can be life changing.

For example, exercising once a week could, in turn, encourage you to eat better, then drink less, then lose weight.

โ€œTypically, people who exercise start eating better and become more productive at work. They smoke less and show more patience with colleagues and family. They use their credit cards less frequently and say they feel less stressed.โ€

The book includes scientific studies, how a clever advertising campaign made Febreeze a household name, the story of Eugene, a man who lost his memory following an illness and how a the CEO of a company increased profits by focusing on one thing – safety.

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For those have you that have read this blog for a while, you’ll already know that I quit smoking in October 2013. Since then, I’ve ran three 10km races, I eat healthily and exercise almost daily.

This wasn’t always how my life was, though. Go back a few years, I could easily drink a bottle of wine a day while chain smoking, whether socialising with my friends or on my own in my room.

I would wake up the next morning, feel my kidneys ache in my lower back and say ‘I’m not going to drink or smoke for the rest of this week’. I would then drive to work, find myself lightening up cigarettes at the usual points of my journey and find a bottle of wine in my hand on the way home from work.

I never really got out of that whole student lifestyle routine. For whatever reason, I could not seem to pull myself out of it.

If you go back a few years further, you’ll notice that my life has always been fuelled by some sort of addition. Whether the addiction be food, losing weight, starving, puking, smoking, drinking or spending – there’s just always something.

In short, I’ve never been very good at looking after myself.

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As I mentioned in the opening of this post, this book was one of the many things that gave me a brutal shove in the right direction.

By focusing on one thing: being strong and having muscle tone – I’ve managed to change the way I treat my body and the way I live.

Now, I exercise almost daily, run a few times a week, I eat well, I hardly ever drink and I don’t smoke. I also finished paying off my credit card bill this month. For the first time in years – apart from my student loan, I have zero debt.

I’ve found a new habit that is quickly becoming an addiction. Yoga.

Although I don’t have the perfect yoga body, I can’t do the splits and I can barely touch my toes, I’ve been finding yoga is a way to uplift myself, a way to become strong, improve flexibility and release stress. When I find myself feeling restless, instead of getting a glass or wine or a packet of crisps, I search one of the 1000’s of yoga videos on YouTube and give it a go. Even if I’m clumsy, fall over and can’t stretch all the day down, I always tell myself:

I come to my mat to practise yoga, not do yoga.

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Because of these changes, I find myself more productive at work, I sleep better, feel less tired, have less down days and have a much more positive outlook on life.

Hopefully in few months, I can posts photos of my doing headstands and bending my legs in bizarre ways. For now, you just get the basic moves. ๐Ÿ˜‰

So tell me, what new habits do you want to create?

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46 Comments

  1. December 18, 2014 / 9:26 am

    This book sounds great I will defo have to give it a go x

  2. December 18, 2014 / 9:39 am

    Ooh must pick this up and give it a read! xx

  3. December 18, 2014 / 10:13 am

    There are some habits that I would love to break and some good ones I’d like to start by being healthy and doing yoga! Thanks for this post! xxx

  4. December 18, 2014 / 10:36 am

    Absolutely wonderful post, really inspiring and exactly how I’m feeling at the moment. That book is definitely my next book buy.

    Jane x

  5. jackie harrison
    December 18, 2014 / 11:01 am

    Great moves and it looks like it will take away stress I need to try it out for myself. Nice job.

  6. December 18, 2014 / 12:38 pm

    I always feel a bit clueless when it comes to picking the right self help book. This book sounds relatable and think this will help a lot in busting some bad habits and achieving goals I’ve been meaning to forever, just in time to start the new year. Great post ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:31 pm

      Thanks – hope you get hold of the book and have a read.

  7. December 18, 2014 / 5:04 pm

    I really need to own this book.

  8. Ileana
    December 18, 2014 / 5:19 pm

    Love ur mat! Will check this book ^^

    xoxo

    Novelstyle๏ปฟ

  9. December 18, 2014 / 6:07 pm

    Thank you for the book recommendation! And great job on making such significant life changes ๐Ÿ™‚

    lovejoanna.com

  10. December 18, 2014 / 6:29 pm

    This sounds so helpful, I totally agree with most books being repetitive, it is amazing how 1 change can snowball into many x

    aforvogue
    NEWPOST

  11. December 18, 2014 / 7:50 pm

    While I love reading, I have never been a fan of self help books. Just couldn’t finish reading any of it. After a couple of pages, my eyes just glaze over and zzzz. It’s horrible and I should really try but it’s just not for me. :-/

    Reflection of Sanity

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:30 pm

      This one is a bit different and comes across more of a book about human nature, than a book about self help.

  12. December 18, 2014 / 8:35 pm

    I read the Power of Habit last year and I thought it was amazing! Congratulations on making a healthier lifestyle for yourself. I had a human development professor in college say that some people just have addictive personalities and need to find someone healthy to be addicted to. Well, I think yoga is just about the healthiest thing you can be addicted to, so good for you!

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:29 pm

      I really do agree with that – it’s so easy for me to become addicted and obsessed with things. Clever professor!

  13. December 18, 2014 / 10:08 pm

    I love hearing about books that make an impact on people’s lives. Your story is so inspiring! I’ve been reflecting on my own bad habits and the changes I need to make, so I’ll definitely check out this book ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:28 pm

      That’s great, do let me know how you get on.

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:27 pm

      Do it, there’s loads of videos on youtube and some are only 10 mins long.

  14. December 19, 2014 / 1:02 am

    What was with the random movie of the year at the end?!

    I agree that changing one habit can lead to others changing. By starting a blog I wish to be more organised which will lead to be getting up earlier, being more productive and doing more with my time. I’ve started writing regular to-do lists so I’m getting there!

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:27 pm

      That’s great! Blogging has helped me with organising my time etc too.

  15. December 19, 2014 / 3:07 am

    what an interesting post! It really is interesting how one habit-good or bad- can be a catalyst for other habits to follow. Like smoking can lead to other bad habits while exercising can lead to really good habits! I’m glad you’re on the track to a healthier you! ๐Ÿ™‚
    Olivia | Her Name Was Celebration

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:26 pm

      I’m glad too ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. December 19, 2014 / 3:25 am

    Thank you for sharing this! I like the concept of changing of one habit, and how that would snowball into changing others as well. That’s a pretty powerful concept.

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:26 pm

      It works! Try it ๐Ÿ™‚

  17. December 19, 2014 / 4:34 am

    I read that book and loved it!!! It is so inspirational! After finishing you feel like you could accomplish anything!
    Melanie @ meandmr.com

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:26 pm

      I’m glad you enjoyed it too ๐Ÿ™‚

  18. December 19, 2014 / 9:38 am

    Might have to give this book a go ๐Ÿ™‚ i don’t know what habit i’d change though, I don’t smoke or drink that much, like maybe one or two drinks every couple of weeks – weird for a student haha! I think atm I’m so busy focusing on my course though I’m ok with how my life is ๐Ÿ™‚ although I do want to start yoga, and that little mantra is great! x

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:25 pm

      Ha, I didnt’ drink at lot in my first year of uni, but my second and third I was basically always drunk.

  19. December 19, 2014 / 2:02 pm

    This sounds like such an interesting book, I’m definitely going to look into getting it! Hope you’re having a good day ๐Ÿ™‚
    Hannah x
    Hanniemc.co.uk

  20. December 19, 2014 / 4:58 pm

    The power of changing little things can make a big difference. I often get overwhelmed by the thought that I have lots to do. If you break it down it becomes easier to change Lucy x

    • Corinne
      December 19, 2014 / 9:25 pm

      Yeah, it totally can! I think too many people try to completely change everything all at once!

  21. December 20, 2014 / 5:08 pm

    Great book ! I must try yoga ๐Ÿ™‚

  22. December 20, 2014 / 10:16 pm

    Yoga is on my list for next year – it;’s exactly the kind of thing I’m terrible at but I aint getting any younger so any extra flaxibility/strenght isn’t just going to magically happen….!

  23. Katie
    December 22, 2014 / 11:57 am

    This is so true just two weeks ago I started eating healthily and so many other aspects of my life have already started to fall into place. Im the happiest I’ve been all year and that’s after just two weeks practising a new habit! xx

  24. December 25, 2014 / 5:50 am

    everyone says thats a great book

    check out todays blogmas
    xx
    Tyana
    theluxedition.blogspot.com

  25. January 9, 2015 / 1:20 am

    Good on you for quitting smoking. I have always wanted to try yoga too..
    xx

    • Corinne
      January 9, 2015 / 8:43 am

      Thanks. You should try it – there are loads of short videos you can do online!

  26. Hayley Colleen
    May 9, 2016 / 11:33 am

    I absolutely love self help book ands anything to improve myself! I have seen this a few times but never brought it, I think I might now though! I wrote a post about all the books that have helped me here: http://budgetgirl.co.uk/lifestyle/who-run-the-world-girls-my-top-5-books-to-help-you-become-a-girl-boss-and-kill-it-in-your-career/ and Sophia was on that list too! I love #girlboss that you stated in another post!
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